You are not going to turn into THAT guy
When people sayâŚ
âIf I celebrate my wins, and I build my confidence, and I doubt myself less, and I trust myself more⌠That is going to make me arrogant.â
Theyâre usually imagining a specific person they know who actually IS arrogant.
Theyâre imaginingâŚThat Guy.
That Guy takes up too much airtime in meetings.
Who wonât shut up and talks over every else.
Who blames everyone but himself when things go wrong.
Who thinks heâs godâs gift to humanity.
And Iâm here to tell you⌠You are not going to turn into That Guy.
Because you and That Guy are on totally opposite ends of the spectrum.
Heâs on the âBlindly Overconfidentâ side, where he maybe DOES need to doubt himself a bit more and trust himself a bit less.
And YOU are on the âBlindly UNDER-Confidentâ side, where youâre holding yourself back and not speaking up and wasting time questioning yourself instead of just doing what you know is the right answer.
So if you build your confidence, celebrate your wins, trust yourself more, and give yourself the benefit of the doubtâŚ
You are not going to magically turn into That Guy.
You have about a thousand layers of internal guardrails in place to make sure that never happens.
Youâre just going to come towards the MIDDLE of that spectrum.
Where youâll spend less time questioning, doubting, and criticizing yourselfâŚ
And more time getting to work on the problem thatâs in front of you.
And enjoying yourself and being in flow.
THATâS the point.
Itâs not hard to like yourself, or to be confident.
You already have mountains of evidence and piles of accomplishments to prove your case.
Whatâs hard is showing your brain that itâs SAFE to like yourself.
That itâs SAFE to be confident.
That itâs SAFE to give yourself grace for your mistakes.
That itâs SAFE to let your guard down and relax into the truth that you are incredible exactly as you are.
Thatâs the part we work on in coaching.
Itâs not about beating positivity into your brain.
Itâs about understanding that, through its relentless negativity, your brain is actually trying to protect you.
And itâs about slowly unwinding that protective mechanism.
Through love and compassion and humor and understandingâŚ
Through logic and stories and analogies and real-life mini-practice sessionsâŚ
Until that protective habit is slowly de-conditioned.
So that you can relax and let ease come in.
Letâs start today.
What my clients have to sayâŚ
âI realized that you can always create a space of abundance, even when there's scarcity.
This process has allowed me to go so deep into myself and realize: Just be more yourself. You donât have to change.
And that abundance helps me to make better, less fear-based decisions."
âClient |Â CEO, PE-backed company
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