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Why working harder isn’t making you feel better
My ex-boyfriend used to tell me I was wrong about this…
Don’t set goals for achievement. Set goals for momentum.
How to tell if you really want what you say you want
The Salt Fat Acid Heat of productivity and ambition
A quick test to figure out if you need a coach, or if ChatGPT is good enough
What my favorite sci-fi novel can teach you about building the career you want
Is your career a garden or a jungle?
Don’t avoid mistakes. Make praiseworthy mistakes.
7 mistakes high achievers make when choosing their next career step (part 7)
The #1 reason you feel behind…
If you would have passed the marshmallow test as a kid, read this
❌ Job search propaganda I’m not falling for
❌ Propaganda I’m not falling for
What an ancient Indian parable can teach you about your job search
The stakes are so much lower than you think
7 mistakes high achievers make when choosing their next career step (part 6)
Stop prioritizing your tasks by importance
Should you quit your job, or not?
7 mistakes high achievers make when choosing their next career step (part 5)
Be disciplined about the right things
No amount of rest will fix a life that’s not in alignment
7 mistakes high achievers make when choosing their next career step (part 4)
7 mistakes high achievers make when choosing their next career step (part 3)
Something feels off. But is it Type 1 Wrongness or Type 2 Wrongness?
7 mistakes high achievers make when choosing their next career step (part 2)
7 mistakes high achievers make when choosing their next career step (part 1)
A secret extra bonus mistake that high achievers make when choosing their next career step
7 mistakes high achievers make when choosing their next career step (intro)
Perfectionism is like saying, “I NEED to pay $1000 for this banana.” 🍌
If you spend all day at work quietly afraid that you’re not adding enough value…
The antidote to imposter syndrome
4 words to help you stop feeling behind
You are exactly where you’re supposed to be.
What my dating life has to do with your career
Open to discover your purpose in life
Burnout has nothing to do with the hours you're working
What if there is absolutely nothing you should be doing differently?
Railway switch habits: low effort, high impact
You can’t get to “I am __” from “I am not __” Mode
It’s not that you’re not good. It’s that this is what good looks like.
1 question to diagnose “meh” job interviews and coffee chats
The 1 Root Cause Problem Every Person Has
What the caterpillar says to the cocoon
How to access your best performance even when you’re stressed, scared, or feeling like an imposter
3 questions to help you access flow on-demand
How to cure your burnout and figure out your next step in one short sabbatical
One simple reframe to help you care less about external validation
If networking for your next role is making you feel discouraged af, read this
Less linear logic, more paradox logic
The Car Honk Method for getting more done and staying in flow 🚗 📣
What are you under-correcting for?
How to spend more time in flow
The cognitive illusion that made me wait too long to hire a coach
The underrated emotional skill you need to land your next job
The simple fallacy that leads to procrastination – and the 5 minute fix to cure it today
A big misconception about tapping into your intuition
What if the reason you’re hesitating to get coaching…is the exact reason you need coaching?
How to motivate yourself to change
Prestige can free you – or it can trap you
What I tell myself when I’m having a tough time
Every downswing contains the seeds of your next upswing
4 words to make any difficult emotion 10x easier
Advice to the burnt out job-seeker
Some things are 80/20. Some things are last-mile delivery.
The power of the ✨Magic Circumstance✨
How to identify the strengths you should build your career around
The one master variable driving your life
The secret ingredient separating you from the people you’re jealous of
If you hate pitching yourself for job opportunities, read this.
I’ve been telling all my clients about this thing that happened to me in speed dating…
Don’t build your career around your passion. Build it around your coping mechanism.
The hard part about a job search isn’t the tactics. It’s the emotions.
Don’t ask “Am I qualified for this role?” Instead, ask this.
Mark Cuban would totally hate me
Don’t change jobs without asking yourself this question
Here’s a real text I sent to my coach yesterday
1 question guaranteed to unlock clarity about your next career step
The cognitive illusion that causes worry and self-criticism
The simple, fixable trigger behind 99% of your stress
You don’t have a confidence problem. You have a metrics problem.
The one fallacy that keeps people stuck when they’re making a career transition
Reading my posts is only half the equation
3 signs you’re hitting the limits of the Stressed Out Overachiever operating model